When Gemini and Virgo come together, they both need to take time to learn about the other's approach to life and love.
Both partners attitude is worth understanding! Gemini's Symbol is the Twins; Geminis can often be of two minds about things.
If Virgo can give one Twin a strong emotional anchor while allowing the other Twin to flit about, this relationship may stand
the test of time. Early in the relationship, Virgo may take things a little too earnestly for Gemini, but if Virgo can wait
a while, both Twins will learn to adapt to the relationship.
Virgo and
Gemini have different approaches to life; Virgo is more sedate and practical and Gemini is intellectual. It can be hard for
Gemini to accept the down to earth, utilitarian approach of Virgo. It might be hard for Virgo to accept Geminis flightiness
and occasional lack of practicality. Virgo can help Gemini to be more involved in life and to see the depth of ideas rather
than simply the surface. Gemini can help Virgo add variety and fun, bringing new excitement into their lives.
Both signs
are ruled by the Planet Mercury. Gemini is the masculine aspect of Mercury while Virgo the feminine. Mercury is the ruler
of communication, and is androgynous -- Gemini will quickly take on the form that it chooses while Virgo may want to observe
the situation a little while longer. Virgo wants a dependable partner and will take the time to work toward forming the perfect
relationship. Gemini has a more intellectual approach, but is good at relating to other people; they can learn to give Virgo
the steadiness that Virgo wants.
Virgo is
an Earth Sign and Gemini is an Air Sign. Gemini moves through life through pure thought, while Virgo is more practical. Virgo
asks, "How will this help me achieve my goals in life?" while Gemini simply finds the object of interest at the moment without
having a set plan in mind. Conflicts can arise in this relationship if Virgo is too critical or Gemini is too distant or detached.
Both need to learn they view the world in different ways. Virgo can be too fussy for Gemini's taste, but Gemini may be too
capricious for their Virgoan partner. As long as Virgo understands that Gemini's flirtatious nature does not affect their
feelings toward the relationship, things will be OK!
Virgo and
Gemini are both Mutable Signs. Virgo tends to be practical and focused on one thing at a time, but Gemini likes to move from
one thing to another as the feeling takes them. Virgo needs to give Gemini the freedom to enjoy life as it comes and not be
too critical if the relationship is not perfect. Virgo can take Gemini's ideas and produce something even if Gemini has moved
on. Together, Gemini and Virgo can show each other that flexibility binds their interests.
The best aspect of the Gemini-Virgo relationship is the security
they can give each other once Virgo allows Gemini to willingly commit to the relationship. Both partners can learn to look
at the world through new eyes when they open themselves to each other. As long as they communicate with each other and use
their ruler Mercury effectively, theirs will be a gratifying relationship.